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Formula to ace ‘the’ exam !

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I am a student for life !

I have done well in my exams, and hence been a good student. But deep in my heart, I don’t consider these exams important.  However, that does not mean I don’t have pre and post-exam stress. We are living in a system, where we value exams to be of great importance.

Exams are a man-made system to test one’s acquired knowledge, a fair and standardized process in my opinion. Exams are a way of elimination. Exams are a way of categorization. Exams are, in some way, a test of one’s luck.

I am not anti-exams. An exam leads to a degree which can lead to a job. But remember, an exam lets you prove to others what you are capable of. The most important exam in your life will be questioning yourself and finding those answers on your own. And the formula for success in this exam is ‘Believing in yourself’!

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thoughts on living alone

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(The pencil is a gift from Professor Mary Louise, who teaches Effective Communication at YorkU – ”Keep writing and re-writing”.)

Living alone, away from home is difficult, and that makes it a truly great experience. I am just one among a million people on this planet, who are living away from their home – for work, for education, for love, for safety, for reasons of their own. But I congratulate every person who is on this journey.

Thank you blogosphere and the world wide web for letting me share my experience. My mind is a mixed space where several thoughts overlap one another. It is through my writing that I seek to get clarity. Thank you to all those friends who have connected with my writing. I find it inspiring to write more and express myself and I hope that you will write to tell your story to the world.

Believe in your self. Be thankful. You are special. These three sentences are my source of inspiration when I am alone. I hope you can build up your own source.

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Rang Lo !

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It’s Holi – the festival of colours ! As every festival day approaches, my mind begins tracing events and memories from the past. I start hunting for photographs, to recount stories and experiences from the past.

Over the years, my relationship with Holi has been changing –  As a kid, playing Holi with  family and throwing water balloons on strangers , to then celebrating Holi with friends as a teenager, to now restricting Holi celebrations by not playing with inorganic colours and water.

I discovered a new Holi song on Youtube today by Shankar Tucker called Rang Lo ! I love the Holi sequence in it – the play of colours on screen looks vibrant and the effect is infectious –

This year, I’m away from all kinds of Holi celebrations, yet, I feel connected. Happy Holi ! Spread love and colour

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Lessons in leadership!

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EGLP fellows @ Kingsbridge Conference Centre

I have done several group projects and presentations in my academic career spanning 4 years. In my opinion, it is rare to feel immense work satisfaction by working with a group of people for several reasons. It’s rare but when that happens, your sphere of knowledge increases immensely.

As I have learnt through my experiences, having a small group of people, having personal interaction between all the members and assigning roles but not limiting members to those specific roles helps the group in achieving it’s goal/s. Work with intelligent people. Work with hardworking people. Work with creative people. All of us have different juices flowing within us. Work together by bringing your own unique self to the table.

The Emerging Global Leaders Program (EGLP) 2013 organised by York International, York University was a great opportunity for me to understand the importance of leadership from fellow emerging leaders. As an EGLP fellow, I realized that a true leader recognizes the diversity of his people and organizes them to work together. Not the one playing the politics of divide and rule.

Quoting the Pakistani Philanthropist Agha Hasan Abedi, “The conventional definition is getting work done through people, but real management is developing people through work.” Stuff good leaders are made of !

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Yes and No to FDI !

This is an op-ed piece that I wrote as an assignment for the ECON course : Macro-economics for Citizens ! A special mention – I received an ‘A’ for this assignment.

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I deeply admire my Eco Prof Avi J. Cohen

YES and NO to FDI!

South African politician Nelson Mandela has often repeated the old maxim: “Where you stand depends on where you sit.” And this is clearly demonstrated in the frenzied debate following the Indian Government’s decision to allow 51 % Foreign Direct Investment (FDI) in multi-brand retail. Politicians on both the left and the right end of the spectrum are making selective arguments in order to protect their respective vote banks. So can FDI bring economic prosperity for the entire country?

FDI is a direct investment made by a company or entity based in one country, into a company or entity based in another country. The popular argument supporting FDI in multi-brand retail is that allowing corporations such as Walmart to set shop in India will expand opportunities for Indian farmers, by offering them better prices (by eliminating middlemen) and help lower the cost of living for Indian families (by offering products at cheaper prices). Further, it will boost employment by creating more jobs in the organized retail sector and develop back-end infrastructure, including cold storage facilities, thereby improving the overall state of the economy.

The argument is naïve in stating that FDI will help improve the overall economy. Two decades after India liberalized its economy, changing socio-economic conditions in the country have further increased economic disparity. Economist and Nobel Laureate Joseph Stiglitz supports this view – “Don’t focus on FDI in the belief that it will solve all problems”.

However, the potential of foreign capital in helping reform the agricultural sector cannot be undermined. According to a report published by Live Mint, shortage of cold storage facilities in India has resulted in 18-40% of agricultural produce being lost. Increasing the supply of cold storage facilities will not only solve the food waste management problem, but also help the government control the rising food prices. The Indian Finance Minister, P. Chidambaram aims to cut current fiscal deficit from 5.2% to 3% by 2016-17, which means that the government will take measures to reduce spending. FDI in infrastructure can be a good alternative for the government to raise capital and continue its reduction in spending.

However, FDI is a debt inflow into the country, as the profits generated by the investment will be repatriated in foreign exchange, resulting in the outflow of foreign exchange from the country in the long run. If we want the benefits of organized retail to accrue to all the stakeholders in the Indian economy, the government must help domestic retail entrepreneurs get access to cheaper capital and foreign technology so that they can expand operations and create sustainable businesses that cater to the needs of the Indian consumer.

With a population of over a billion people, India is a huge potential market for the global retail industry. Walmart has a vested interest in setting shop in the country. But, the Government needs to address the interests of its citizens. We need to attract foreign equity that will be an asset to the country, and not just serve the interests of the foreign corporations.

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Swades !

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Borrowing the title of this post from a Bollywood film, starring superstar Shahrukh Khan, favourite among the Non – Resident Indian (NRI) masses,  I can totally understand why people of the Indian diaspora feel connected to their motherland through Bollywood and religion. Living for 7 months away from India, on one hand, it has increased my curiosity about the world, but at the same time, it has deepened my interest for anything and everything Indian – food, music, religion, culture, economy, business, people …

Simply put, you can take the Indian out of India, but not the ‘Indianess’ out of the Indian; Indianess in quotes, because it holds a diverse range of meanings and notions for different people, but it binds us all together !

My favourite song while reminiscing about the motherland –

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F.R.I.E.N.D.S

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You know some people for a little while, but they make it worth for the rest of your life

These people help you find yourself

They help you be yourself

They inspire you

They make you laugh

They make you wonder

They help you shop

They help you cook

They help you do your groceries

They help you when you need help

They radiate amazing energy

They understand you

They travel with you

They bake your birthday cake

They join you for a walk

They make you listen to new music

They open new doors for you

They sing alongwith you

They teach you new things

They let you be silly

They engage you in deep conversations

They join you in your rant against the system

and they share their ice cream with you ! (Most important)

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Understanding India in Toronto

Yesterday my friend Jenny Matingu revealed to me a little known fact about India. Jenny is a Canadian of African origin, who went to India on an exchange program in 2011. And she fell in love with the country, and is planning to go back and work there. I was intrigued by her revelation and decided to Google for more information. ‘African by origin, Indian by nationality and Gujarati by speech’ read out a headline of a news story in The Hindu BusinessLine. The headline refers to the the Siddi tribe living in Jambur village in the heart of Gujarat. BBC News calls them ‘the lost Africans of India’. This came as a complete surprise to me.

Today, I met a Bhakti Yoga practitioner who delivered a talk on the Indian classical epic –  Mahabharata and its connection to the holy book Bhagvad Gita at YorkU. Her white skin colour and her American accent seemed to contrast her sari-clad body and tikka bearing forehead. Seeking to know her background, I enquired how she got involved in the Hare Krishna movement. She narrated her story, dating back to the 1970s, when as a self-confessed Hippie, she became disillusioned with the American dream. Soon, she realized that intoxication did not lead her anywhere closer to her purpose in life. Her first encounter with the Hare Krishna movement happened in Brooklyn, New York City and since then, there has been no looking back. Although raised as a Catholic, today, she and her family – consisting of her husband, children and grand-children, are all followers of Lord Krishna. I was quite impressed with her talk on the science of the soul.

Sometimes, I feel that it is a beautifully connected world. I am miles away from India. And yet, here I meet wonderful people who are inspired by Indian culture, religion and philosophy. And they tell me so much more about my country!

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Family dinner

One of the causes of rising obesity could be the lack of family dinners.

Imagine a house where every night the family shuts off the television, the mobile phones, the Ipad and eats dinner together. It takes up a few minutes of your day, and disconnects you from the outside world at large. It connects you with your inner world – your family – your only world when you were first born.

For many of my generation, family dinners are a one-off thing, usually going out for dinner with the large, extended family, during festival times. A family should dine together daily. Sadly, family dinners are a dying thing.

Today, it’s tough to get the family together for dinner at the same time. But, it’s worth the effort. Family dinners can include or exclude family conversations. Have a quiet dinner with your family, even if you don’t have anything to share with them. Spending some quiet time together is a great way to strengthen bonds.  Also, it’s a good way to be away from the television and not over-eat. Eating together is a great way to eat well.

So save the time for your family dinner. Happy eating together !

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home is where the food is.

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Every time I cook, I feel that I’m getting a step ahead. It seems that cooking will be an ongoing learning process for life. Thankfully, the Internet has made this learning very accessible and convenient.

But home is where the food is ! Nothing beats freshly prepared home food, and in my opinion , that’s the real food. I feel that most of us today consider food as a way to satiate our hunger, but food is much more than just that. It’s about nourishment – nourishing our mind, body and soul.

Sadly, the food we are eating is highly processed. You think it is food, but it is only like food. Look at the food label and you will see. That so-called food is an industrialized, mass-produced product made up of chemicals and harmful substances. Thus, we are abusing our own bodies and turning it into a waste-generating system. It may not take too long before this machinery breaks down.

Today people are growing more conscious and have started the organic food movement. It’s unfortunate that only a few decades ago, most of us ate organic food, food that is grown without the use of any pesticides or chemicals.

Globalization has exposed us to different cuisines. I would love to have crepes for breakfast, drink Tim Horton’s French Vanilla Coffee and snack on their Boston Cream donut after class, then a falafel wrap with hummus for dinner and Second Cup’s chocolate brownie for dessert. But, in my heart, all this glory fades, when I look at simple home-cooked dal chawal. I love the plethora of choices that we are getting today, but while eating global, let’s embrace the local.

This old Dhara oil advertisement really sums up my feelings for home food.